Today I wanted to speak on how to be whole within your energies of masculine and feminine within you. Spirit the awareness within is a masculine energy our body/soul is a feminine energy, two powerful energies of one divine being. I've studied metaphysical concept for 7 years now and over time, one thing has become really clear to me, that alot of our healing , personally and collectively comes back to the feminine not just female but feminine energy as a whole, the caring, feeling emotional, creative, fun, radiant, receiving, connecting part of us. For thousands of years this energy has been suppressed within women and men. Over the past year I've been focusing on reconnecting more deeply with this energy of the Divine feminine Goddess, Mother the source of life.
We need to rely on our masculine awareness to guide and protect our Divine feminine essence. As the masculine worships the Goddess so too did humans worship the Goddess from the beginning of time until the disconnection and suppression due to the rise of patriarchal systems. The masculine energy within ourselves needs to be activated to love and protect and to keep the female grounded and focused , loved and valued. Our masculine needs to come into alignment, to be the worshiper that the Divine feminine in ourselves, and the feminine energy in us needs to allow to openly receive the worship by the masculine energy within her. As women we have to allow the masculine devour us and love us completely. Stop criticizing yourself, let your Divine masculine protect you. Let this energy rise in you and let your Divine feminine feel safe in your body and know that the Divine masculine has your back and stands next to you and will always be at your service to love and serve you. The masculine within wants to take care of you. Let him hold space for you, don't be afraid to speak up to others when you have to, and don't be afraid to let your feminine heart shine or to express yourself, or to sing, dance, play or follow your dreams. Speak up for your values because the masculine worships you and is always with you, be present with this energy with your Divine lover.
If your own masculine energy isn't honoring and aligned with your Divine feminine essence then we as women are bound to also be actively participating and propagating the patriarchal machine.
Heal your masculine by activating your feminine and calming and nurturing yourself thus creating safety. Start reprogramming your neuropathways. Don't react to stressful situations instead respond, just breathe and recognize where in the past you experienced these emotions and listen to your needs, then act on how or what feels or what can be a better outcome for you now then how you reacted in the past. Hear what your inner self wants if it's love or whatever and you're not experiencing that now it is time to speak your truth, make a better choice, set boundaries or walk away. Being a Divine Feminine is being emotionally available, feeling all of your emotions and communicating them in an authentic way. Be honest, open, and loving and say what you feel and feel what you say. Don't hold back on communicating your feelings, love, support, setting boundaries ect. This is being feminine. If you can't set boundaries then you need to work on your masculine energy, so that he's on board supporting and worshipping all of you.
One study showed tha only after six months in an abusive relationship a woman who had no childhood damage will act in many ways just like a survivor of child abuse. It's a chain, if the man abuses his partner/spouse, lies, cheats, emotionally or verbally abuses, then the woman is hurt, has trauma and is unable to parent, connect, or nurture or focus on life and her responsibilities. Thus creating a snowball effect on those who rely on her especially any children or loved ones or work, those neglected by her may be damaged too and let themselves down and eventually whoever relies on them will also be affected or find abusers and keep the chain going. As women we need to become Whole/ Holy within ourselves and stop performing. In all actuality women are the choosers. In the animal world females are the chooser and the males are the performers. You are the prize, not the other way around so let's stop seeking attention and give ourselves our own Divine masculine attention. Let your Divine masculine worship your Divine feminine essence. Love yourself and every imperfection you are beautiful, you are powerful. Date yourself, worship your Divine feminine. Defend yourself as your masculine lover, let the Divine masculine protect, guide and romance you. Let your spirit be your Divine counterpart. And do this before looking for someone external to you to do it, it will not work if you aren't emotionally available, whole and complete in yourself first!
